Tuesday, 18 February 2020

People around me

Hi ...... It's been a long time since I have written and all I can say that I have really missed writing to all of you out there. It's been quite a journey, these last five years..... Lots of things have changed. I have definitely changed.... The people I once loved and adored have changed.....I have recognised who are the 'real ones' in your life and who are here to stay with you. Those who left ...... I still love you, yes I do,but in the universal language, I can only say that we have to walk our separate paths as you no longer serve any purpose in my journey and I am sure it's vice versa. I am grateful to have learnt my lessons well. A lot of gratitude for that. Let me be honest, one of the best lessons I learnt in this period is the Art Of Letting Go...... Dropping my stories..... Letting go of what I thought was true for me....... Maybe it was not true for the other person/people..... Doesn't matter.... I learnt and I feel good ..... Liberated and powerful to know that it's not really that tough you know..... To let go. One thing I must say that governed my thoughts during that phase of mine was .... That what will happen if these people I give so much importance to are not there in my life tomorrow? And believe me when I visualised that,it was not so bad you know...... We always weaken ourselves by giving more importance to someone else other than ME...... The rule that governed me at that time which I would follow even today, hands down is ... When I have to make a choice which I am tempted to make.... How many people will suffer or benefit from that choice that I make? That's a question I ask myself  when I am to make a choice...... Because, whether we like it or not.... We as a community of people are interlinked with each other in ways we cannot even fathom. You and you alone with an ACT of  yours can drive a person to commit a murder, rob a bank, jump into a relationship that they may regret later, commit suicide.... And how many of us really understand this? Let's be responsible...... Let's visualise before we act..... Let's be better than what we were yesterday. The only person I have to compare myself to is my own self...... Till I write again which will hopefully be soon enough. ..... See you.😊😊😊